Life should not be a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in an attractive and well preserved body, but rather to skid in sideways, chocolate in one hand, martini in the other, totally worn out and screaming,
"WOO HOO, what a ride!"

Saturday, July 21, 2012

Saturday Snapshot

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I had planned to show adorable photos of my mom's new golden retriever puppy but I'll have to save that for another week.  If my kids can all stay healthy! (knock wood)

Oops he did it again...
Remember this photo from Father's Day? My youngest son had a mishap while he was racing his 4 wheeler. Guess where we were this week? Back at the ER! And not just one, but two!
ER visit for Father's Day injuries
I got this text from my youngest son Tuesday afternoon. "Don't freak out. I cut my hand badly" (Is there a way to cut it goodly?) I calmly wrote back "I'm not freaking out but I'm going to call you"  He told me that he was on his way to the ER because he had cut his hand at work with a carpet knife. (like a utility knife) When we met him there and talked to the doctor, she was concerned because he had cut three fingers quite deep and it was hard to control the bleeding. She was also pretty sure that he had injured tendons so they wanted to send him to a hand specialist at a large hospital two hours away. When I asked if we would be driving him ourselves she said we should let him go in an ambulance because of the bleeding and the IV. So hubby ran home to grab our stuff in case we needed to stay overnight while the transportation arrangements were made. We even got to request his buddy who is an EMT and who also rode with him the last time. (We have become frequent flyers of the ER.) We met our son at the next hospital (he got there much sooner since he got to ride with lights and sirens!) in much different surroundings. We went from our dinky little ER with six curtained off beds and a few private rooms to a much larger, city ER with security guards and multiple rooms. We were in bed 48! My brother lives nearby so he came to wait with us while our boy was assessed. To make a long story short-ish (so sorry for the length of this post) he didn't damage the tendons but does have nerve damage that will hopefully regenerate. He needed 18 very loose stitches (to allow for drainage) across the palm side of three fingers, an antibiotic, pain meds, lots of gauze and a splint. We got home at 2:30 a.m. I have disgusting, yet interesting photos before, during and after the stitches but I will spare you those details.

So to sum it up, that's three ERs and two ambulance rides for the same kid in one month. And those weren't even his first trips in an ambulance. Or obviously to the ER. Or my only kid to ride in an ambulance. Good grief... My three boys sat around one evening this week comparing scars, stitches (they've all had them in the last year) and stories of other accidents. It sounds like they're clumsy but that's not the case. They've all played sports their whole lives including college, all have jobs and sometimes they have dangerous hobbies. They work hard and they play hard. They are males.

A friend of mine made the comment that we never seem to catch a break. On the contrary. We definitely caught a break. Again.  My kid got to come home with us from the ER and I feel we are very fortunate. I count my blessings every-single-day.
ER visit for cut fingers
The little bandage he wore home

29 comments:

  1. OMG...and they say accidents happy in 2's....how terrible for your son.

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    1. I just hope 2 per month isn't a regular thing! He's starting to feel a little better though.

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  2. Goodness! I'm glad he's well on the way to recovery! Hopefully he can get these all out of the way while he's young and still able to heal quickly and then there won't be any more on the horizon when he's older and not so resilien!

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    1. It's always something with this kid! He broke his arm twice before he was four! He does heal quickly though.

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  3. Oh gosh, what an ordeal! Wishing him a speedy recovery.

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  4. Wow, I am glad he was all right in the end!

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  5. Just reading that made me feel sick to my stomach. I'm glad he didn't damage the tendons.

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    1. The whole event didn't do much for my stomach either. Ick. I don't usually panic, I just kick into Mom mode. And it's always better when I'm there to see and talk to them for myself too. It's the not knowing that scares the crap out of me!

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  6. So glad his injury was not as severe at the Dr. first thought. Those ER visits are so scary!

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    1. The ER visits are scary but what a relief when we finally get to leave!

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  7. So glad the tendons aren't damaged!

    I have a young man who manages to similar things to himself....It makes a mom very nervous!

    Here's my Snapshot.

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    1. Maybe we should put them in a giant bubble! Do you think our sons will ever outgrow it??

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    2. Yes, eventually. It's why their car insurance rates drop after they reach 25.

      If you can live that long:-)

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  8. I'm glad he is OK - the strain on your nerves must be terrible though.

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    1. Thank you! The strain is bad when we are waiting to find out how bad the injuries are but after that we try not to think about it too much. We would go crazy!

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  9. Not again!!! I'm glad he's recovering! Wishing you an uneventful remaining summer!

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    1. Thanks Jess! I'm not sure what would qualify for uneventful at our house - FEWER trips to the ER? NO ambulance rides? Yeesh...

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  10. Not again! Wishing you an uneventful rest of the summer!!!

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  11. Ouch! I hope he heals quickly and stays away from the ER for a while. :)

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  12. Rough couple of weeks! I hope that's it for ER visits for a while.

    My Snapshot

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  13. "don't freak out". Don't you just love it, I've had those calls. I'm also usually told not to come. "I can handle it."

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    1. Exactly! Like I'm not going to go? The last time my middle son got stitches he did it in the evening at a restaurant he worked at. His manager took him to get stitches and we didn't know about it until he was home.

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  14. I hate when my kids start a conversation with..."don't freak out..." I'm glad to hear it is not as bad an injury as they first thought, although it still looks pretty intense. I hope he continues to heal and all goes well. This is why moms end up with gray hair!

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  15. My son is only 9 right now, for some reason I'm dreading him getting any older.

    I'm glad your son was okay, and hopefully no more er visits for a long time to come.

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  16. Oh my goodness! I hope he heals up quickly.

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  17. Yow, just reading this has my stomach jumping around. Hope he heals quickly and doesn't have any more mishaps like this. Enough is enough, already.

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  18. On the upside he looks much better this ER trip. Gage has started early with his hospital trips I can't even imagine the damage when he starts doing rough and tumble boys stuff!
    You ARE blessed and very smart to realize it :)
    Hope this next month is ER-Free!

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