Life should not be a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in an attractive and well preserved body, but rather to skid in sideways, chocolate in one hand, martini in the other, totally worn out and screaming,
"WOO HOO, what a ride!"

Thursday, June 25, 2009

Family update

My cousin, who I have mentioned several times here on my blog, has been in the hospital for almost 6 weeks now. She has been battling a very rare brain tumor for over 2 years and after her most recent surgery she started to experience complications. They have compounded with time and puzzled her doctors, family and friends. During the last week it became clear to all of us who love her that she would never be coming home again. She was placed on life support two days ago and when her doctors confirmed that her cancer had come back yet again, her amazing husband had to make the agonizing decision to remove it all last night. The extended family is all on the east coast and they live on the west coast but it might as well be a million miles away. At last report this afternoon she is still hanging on and fighting to the end. I wouldn't expect anything less from her. I always, always thought that she was going to win this battle. I guess she's going to go out on her own terms after all.

15 comments:

  1. My heart goes out to you and your family. I've followed the story & the photos you've shared of your cousin's journey, hoping and praying, celebrating at small milestones reached. I cannot tell you how sorry I was to read your post, your cousin has battled so bravely. Thoughts and prayers to you and yours.

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  2. Chills ran through me as I read your post. I'm so sorry that your family is having to go through this.

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  3. I'm sad to hear this. I pray she'll pull through or go as peacefully as possible.

    Happy thoughts to you and yours.

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  4. I'm so sorry for you and your family. I can't imagine the pain that her husband is dealing with.

    God Bless, and my thoughts and prayers are with you all.

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  5. Such a terrible time for your loved ones, and you. My heart goes out to you.

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  6. You are in my thoughts.

    *hug*

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  7. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. My dad passed from cancer three years ago, and I understand your heartbreak being so far from her as my mom and dad were in Texas while I had to sit by and wait for updates in Indiana.

    Remember you are loved and we are all here with shoulders for you.

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  8. Dear Debbie, I have said a prayer for your cousin to be at peace...as I am also in the same situation with my cousin..how eerie to hear your story as I can totally relate. If our government would take even a small part of wasted money and put it toward cancer research and once and for all find a cure for this hideous disease...I shall pray for all of us tonight and please know that I am thinking of you.

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  9. I'm sorry to hear this. My thoughts are with you all.

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  10. So very sorry. Our thoughts are with all of you.

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  11. My thoughts are with you and your family.

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  12. I'm so sorry to hear this. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers.

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  13. I am so sorry to hear about this. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

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  14. Just wanted to let you know my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

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  15. I'm sorry to hear that, I hope everything works out in the end.

    ~ Popin

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