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"WOO HOO, what a ride!"

Tuesday, January 27, 2009

Special Days, Special People

We had such a busy weekend! We had a birthday party for my grandmother who turned 90 on Sunday! Ninety years old! I find that so amazing and inspiring. We have very strong women in our family who have been through hard times and she is definitely one of them. Both of my grandmothers are widowed and are now 90 (and still live in their own homes). My great-grandmother lived to the age of 92. My mother, who is another great inspiration, hosted the party at her house and we had many extended family members and friends who showed up as a surprise for grandma. It was very personal and my mom had asked everyone in advance to send or bring something they would like to share. She put together a touching scrapbook that was made up of pages that we all had worked on individually for a month. It was made up of cards, letters, pictures drawn by the little kids, photos, memories...It was the perfect gift. It was a long afternoon but it was a joy to see my grandma the center of attention. She deserved it.


The next day was my poor husband's birthday. No party for him! We are partied out. The poor guy. We will have a special dinner later in the week. It takes longer to round up the kids now that they have lives of their own. Two are in college but they are close by. Besides, they would never pass up a chance at a free dinner, especially if we go out to eat. My husband is very patient and kind and never asks for anything. We may not be able to spend lots of money for gifts but he does deserve special recognition for being a great guy. We'll find someplace cheap, er, inexpensive and embarrass him when the waiters sing to him while carrying out a flaming cupcake, just because we love him. It's the celebration that counts. I'm very lucky to have the family I do. They are the best. Now that this round of birthdays are over I have a week or two until the next flurry starts. If I hurry I might get to read a book!




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10 comments:

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  2. wow, 90 years old...that is an accomplishment! Happy Birthday to her and your husband.

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  3. Thanks for the reminder about the Thursday Thoughts Sherri! I was planning to do that.

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  4. Scrapbooks and memories ~ those are the best gifts ever accompanied by a lot of love. Your family sounds wonderful.

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  5. How wonderful to clebrate with so many family members a memorable birthday. Loved hearing about this special celebration.

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  6. 90 is amazing. Mine just turned 80 recently.

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  7. My dad is 89 and while it's remarkable, it's so hard to watch people you love grow old.

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  8. You won on A Novel Menagerie... The Makedown! Congrats

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  9. Hey I just wanted to pop in. I loved hearing about your grandmas and I hope hubby had a good bd. Some of the inexpensive, flaming cupcake birthdays are the best of times. Great post.

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  10. How wonderful that your grandmother is so independent at 90! I only have one living grandmother and she is 82.

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