Life should not be a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in an attractive and well preserved body, but rather to skid in sideways, chocolate in one hand, martini in the other, totally worn out and screaming,
"WOO HOO, what a ride!"

Tuesday, March 22, 2011

My Grandma

Until last week I was blessed to still have two grandmothers, both 92 years-old. My Grandma B collapsed and died at home on the farm where she spent so many years. My grandparents worked hard and raised 5 children there, who all went on to have many grandchildren and great-grandchildren. I will always treasure the memories of playing and working in the barn, sledding on the hill, helping in the garden, learning embroidery and eating grandma's wonderful meals. When you visited you knew she would have food on the stove and goodies in the cookie jar, ready to whip up a homemade dinner in minutes. Some of my first memories are of family gatherings in that kitchen.

Last week we gathered at the funeral home instead of the farm. We honored her memory and laid her to rest next to my grandfather. I cried for our loss but I also laughed with my brothers, cousins, aunts and uncles as we shared silly stories. It was wonderful to spend that time together and we've made promises to do it more often. I'm sure it won't happen enough but I hope we'll try.

I am so grateful for all she gave me and I will miss her. Good-bye Grandma, I love you.

9 comments:

  1. I'm so sorry to hear about your loss. My heart goes out to you and your family. Hugs.

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  2. I'm so sorry for your loss. It sounds like your grandmother was a grand lady.

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  3. My condolences in your time of grief. This is a lovely tribute - wishing you and all your family peace, comfort, and blessings.

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  4. I'm sorry for your loss. I know you will miss her.

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  5. So sorry to hear about your loss. I hope you find much comfort in your memories of your grandmother. She sounds like she was a wonderful woman. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

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  6. What wonderful memories you have of your grandmother. Treasure them! Your post just brought tears to my eyes. I'm so sorry for your loss. {{{{Hugs}}}}

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  7. Thank you all for your kind words and good wishes. This is truly a wonderful community of caring people!

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  8. Sorry to hear about your grandma. She looks like a wonderful grandma. Just keep remember the good memories.

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  9. I'm so sorry, Debbie! You were blessed to have her for as long as you did and it sounds like she has left her mark on everyone in your family. Hugs coming your way.

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